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Changi – ( 9Apr – 14 Apr 25 – Quarantine)  INSIDE CHANGI

Hi all S14022025- this means I am the 1402 guy that come to the prison this year on 9 Apr  2025- mean every month about 360 people come inside for short sentence. There are also others on drug and long sentences. Long sentances start from 0 in 2005  till now about 34,000 in 2025.  

From the court we were brought to Changi Prison in the evening. For last 5 days from 9 Apr 2025, I start my sentence and was in cell 508 with 3 friends at Changi Prison for quarantine. All were here for 3 days waiting for blood tests.

The BF is 4 slices of bread with strawberry, chocolate or  butter spread and a cup of tea or coffee. Lunch and Dinner are eatable and ok and varied like fried fish, sardines, fishcakes or chicken with veg and a fruit like apple, banana or orange.

The lights will on at 6 am and off at 1 pm and on at 4pm again. We have BF at 8 am, lunch at 11.30 am and dinner about 5.30 pm. To pass time, my

friend work out a exercise routine before BF L and D, 2 sets of 25 push is, 1 min planking, 25 sit ups and 25 leg raises. That means in a  day we do 6 sets ie 3x2 sets.There are some books to read like adventures of Percy Jackson the Greek gods are alive and kicking, and comics. My cell mates all shared their stories.

Selarang Park – ( 14Apr – 7 May 25 EDR) 

On 14 Apr 2025, we took one whole afternoon to move out from Changi to Selarang which has yard time and easier.

Selarang Park has 3 blocks  S1 A , B C and we are at S1 C ( which has 2 wings each Block A and Block B). I was at S1 C ( Blk A). ( each cell about 5-8 people max). It  is clean and nice with open grilles at the front and toilet, showerand basin at back  – and  we have to wear a  blue silicon rubber band with our name, number  and bar code.  Restricted inside the cell-3 times  a day attendence checking. Every day about 7.30 am before BF, 12.30 pm after L, and7.30 pm after D - they call it muster check – and lunch time is physical check i.e Lunch time sometimes officer pass by to do physical count and we say “Good afternoon sir- muster 6/ 7/8  Thank you sir”  - depending on the number of people., we sit in front of view cam for muster check inside the cell, like show face to take attendance, front 4 sit down, back row stand behind cam.

My cell is with open grille and can see the trees outside. It can sleep 8 - sometimes new guys come in or inmates are transferred to other  cell at 5pm . eg Teo and Vera were released or transferred. Teo is in watch business and we learnt Rolex is not a company. We also learn from Bey that they can buy Rolex from pawnshop. Now 6 guys- Choo,

Washing cell 3 times ( after dinner) a week. Every Tue, Thu and Sunday, we wash the cell and it dries very fast. Every Tue and Thu we have yard time -. When it rains and basketball court is wet – we will switch to dayroom time like watch movie- we have no choice but movies. The newspaper are 2 weeks ago belated, eg Tariffs news and some pre election news. Every morning BF 4 slices of bread - rotate between strawberry on Fri, Chocolate on Thurs and butter spread on another day with tea or coffee. Lunch has warm rice and 1 veg ( overcook) and with hard boiled egg, fish cake, sardines, 3 sausages....and a fruit eg an apple, orange or banana. Really can suffer constipation by staying inside too long.

Face to face visit is only Thurs and Tele visit on all the other days. – only 2 times a month.  I can receive mails daily i.e  I receive incoming mail the next day. In a month, the quota is 4 eletter or 4 times a month and but can only send  out 8000 words in  each eletter mail - - so we save the draft and send it later normally. They will screen every mail and it takes 2 days to reach my family.

Sometimes we have guys with sleep disorder because of their lower jaws and they need to use “Cepas” some kind of blower to sleep.  The 2 new guys Richard Lim and Teo Jae Voon snore like pigs - snore so loud and I cannot sleep. Another disturbance is sometimes after lights out  at 9.30 pm – neighbouring  cell are  still talking and laughing so loud  .  ( was told they exchange stories of ex girl friends..etc) or shouting to neighbouring  cell ( one singh to another guy at the floor above).  Any way going out soon.

Everything is better than I expect. Now in 8 man cell. Actually it was a nice experience eg free daily laundry, medical and medications,  1 hour yard time - 2 times a week (for running cancel if raining) , 1 hour movies - 3 times a week eg we watched Hindi movie with subtitle  ( blind man see murder) and English movie on sextortion (based in US and Hungary). We can borrow books from the library and church services on Sundays.  I read 3 novels- Crazy Rich Asians by Kevin Kwan, alchemist and Kane and Abel and others  and newspapers LZZB and ST but belated copies.

Basically inside the cell , we try to eat sleep and do some light exercise ( Not allowed actually)  and bathe 5 times a day. If it rains - the cell is  with open grilles so it is very cooling. My cell have just 5 people for a while.

I try to memorise scriptures - many of them, beatitudes, communion, armour of God, Psalm 23, Psalm 134, Proverb 3..  and read Matthew and Revelation, Acts, 1 John, Galatians…etc  and tell them the story of Esther ( like what is  happening to Israel today). reading bible and sharing with Christian brothers and non believers. Officers Mohan Raj , Palani, Douglas Goh..etc and warden are super nice like friends and encourage us to say hello to them when we see them outside next time.

 

It is like a big kopitiam. There are movements in my cell – so we learn all the types of crimes that people who come in- and - everyday talking and sharing  all kinds of crimes that they come in- different levels of sentencing - bank card, singpass, scam, internet casino online gambling, woman charter crimes, family child abuse,  online dating and sexual crimes of underage girls crime, drink driving hitting barriers, signpost, dividers, traffic accidents knocking people until paralysed,  motorist, illegal turn,  second time offence, driving without licence, verbal threatening , threatening holding knife,  forklift accidents, tourist bus hitting taxis, handphone repair shop putting app into your android phone,  site construction accidents, insider trading crimes, commercial crimes in cheating govt with invoices , contraband cigarettes evading GST and duties,  trafficking turtles from Thailand  infringe Nparks , orgies parties and filming with consent, ....etc learn so much about the BIG PRISON which is Singapore. Finally, released on 7 May 25 around 11 am, and have a lunch with family, and proceeded to collect my passport from TP.

Just week before released, Prison Services also have several sessions – to explain yellow ribbon program, and scam workshop and lessons to help us understand - all kind of scams - bank card, singpass, love scam, job scams, SIM card, phone scams, phishing for data , investment scam, eg traffic accident scam- they knock u and ask you to report police according to them and give you monies and they claim.  Insurance old folks with CPF monies are vulnerable to love scams eg Indonesia and Philippines.. and all cases in Singapore.  Type of scams and what is scam and cases of scam in Singapore the statistics. Etc

 

Medical

Inside here, the Doctor say prison have to take care of me. They want to  force me to take the heart medications- because  he thinks my heart is attacking me – and  I cannot reject. They take our blood pressure almost daily- and anybody can report sick anytime.  However, later the Doctor let me sign a clearance letter- as I told him that I stopped sometime ago- such that  I never take any medications at all. On release, the Doc even gave me the referral to poly clinic and Sengkang Hosp for follow up checks.  

 Yardtime

Every Tue and Thur –during the 1 hour yard time, we are provided with clean socks but share the shoes,  I normally keep running around the 2 - basket ball and badminton court for 30 min and do 30 sets of push ups, diamond, chest, spider .- excellent workout.

Movie-Dayroom

Every Mon, Wed, Fri we have 1 hour TV outside or have hair cut  ( by fellow inmates) and cut our nails .

My friend has bible and also they share  biblical texts and give us old newspaper

For short sentence I cut hair on the first day on 14 Apr – hoping it will grow by the time I go

out. Inside cell, we share stories - everybody is talking about my case even inside- so like a celebrity.

 

Many slogan on Walls / corridors
 

Many sayings painted on walls and corridors here:

1. The best way to find yourself is to lose yourself in the service for others – Gandi

2. Never let the things you want forget the things you have.

3. In  any moment of decision, the best decision to do the right thing and the next best thing is to do the wrong thing and the worst thing is to do nothing-Franklin D. Roosevelt

4. Take charge and embrace change before it change you.

5. The glory of living is not in never falling, but to rise up after each fall- Nelson Mandela.

6. Be trustworthy, trust takes time to build and seconds to break but a lifetime to repair.

Some cell-mates

Choo  WC / wife USA green card

God send him there to share the bible with me.

His case dragged for over 7 years and investigation took very long and passport impounded for over 7 years.  He is from Trinity  Church friend here give a beautiful testimony about him  closing his biz and get someone to take over including the HDB shop just before case and how it brought him and his wife closer after they come to Christ. They relied a lot on spiritual parents. Used to to quarrel 3 times a week.

Share  his stress  with all the issues/differences with his wife the way she react all the time - throw food when he don’t eat, strict on kids no childhood and playing bicycle and he was angry she lied to church members he away doing a big job at MBS and children he is sick. When they agreed he is holidays. Avid fishing guy- in Japan and Maldives

Choo has bike shop for children bike ( he spent 3 months to learn from another boss and set up his own) and already sold. He shared his testimony of God helping hm to arrange takeover of his engineering shop before coming in.

For Conspiracy (He as sub contractor provide invoice with discount but main contractor bail govt without discount and pocket the monies)  cheat govt on invoices cheating 45+ k over 68 invoices ). Main con director gets 2 years and fine 200k. I think all govt officers were not involved - all clear in the lengthy investigation. He was on bail since 2018, almost 7 years. He served 10 mths and after remission 6-7 mths. He came in on Jan 24 2025 and jail 101 days from 3 Mar 2025  and out on tagging program on 6 May 2025. He is also is a Grab and Tada driver and they share the tips and passengers they have pick. The problem of vomiting and people shitting in Grab  and where to clean them ( near Havelock).

We even discussed valet business for drink drivers should become popular in the future and maybe can start one.  

Harish – Gold 1510-22 Apr

The Harish guy – Indian Singapore PR wife and children all Singapore citizen. 2 daughters alr married at 23 yrs old and bot resale flats at Sengkang Anchorvale- strategy is to own a few properties. He has 3 restaurants ( 1 at Lor 33 Geynag and another 2 in Yishun)   and 2 daugthers married when they are around 20s and bought resale flats at Anchorvale- Sengkang – he says that is the fastest way to wealth.

He share how to buy gold and keep ( he has 5 kg)- from Ani or Minora at Dunlop Street or any shops at little India- eg pay regular 3k for 11 mths and get 3k at 12 mth or the gold that you buy.

For sg  citizenship -he says just keep on applying they will give. Also for PR as long as you stay here - you can keep extending re- entry 3 mths before expiry.

 

I try to make make a record list of all the  crimes and sentancing.

Woman charter Cases

1. Another case malay family – step daughter smoker accused stepfather Wan accused of touching here 5 years ago when she is minor and also shouting at her PP ask for 4 years -- 2 years for shouting and 2 years for Woman charter - appeal trial at high court - legal fees 26k- finally get 4 months. Things happen 5 years ago and angry with step father and accused him. Luckily step mother support him.

2. Ng Shawn – super in chinses chess – beat me 6 times- was told knock a lady head on purposely and the lady shouted and he was arrested for molest. I think 6 months without program. ( sexual crimes do not have program).

3. Another guy Tan ( a taxi driver) – upskirting in mall escalator and – CCTV footage was shared to nearest  MRT to match him – and traced from EZ link card to his address and arrested.

4. Another guy – on internet dating - date underage girl and have penetration during date and after that her parents report him and arrested and remanded without bail. Pending trial and likely to be caned.

5. Another young guy Alvin make porno videos and distribute to chatgp with 47 members on orgies party consensual sex get 20 k fine for possession and 5 weeks for being the admin of the group for distribution ( because he manage to get them sign consent forms.). One angmo boyfriend of girlfriend in group complain. So cannot store porno videos in hp or PC.

Ian Fang Case

Family – child abuse case –

Father cane child  and social worker found bruises and report. He got 1 year and mum 6 mths for not stopping and protecting.

Another Vietnam guy 32 yrs hit girl friend 21 yrs old in quarrel and girl friend report - get 4 weeks jail  but he overstayed work permit ( for over 8 years ) got 4 years and 8.5 k fine and 3 strokes of cane . Overstaying more than 12 mths get 3 strokes. I also noticed another Viet guy young man also in jail for fighting- it seems they like to fight.

Another use dating site and date underage girl and perform sexual assault and penetration charge under woman charter yet to sentance -no bail

Some for fighting - one guy Benjamin drunk and punch police officer at Clarke Quay-  I think 3 weeks others for fighting

I think. Hope we will learn and understand and avoid all these problems.

Traffic Cases

Many traffic accidents and drink driving cases around 4 weeks to 3mths. Some drive while under suspension 4-6 weeks jail if accident. Without licence 2 weeks jail, if DD 5-6 weeks if accident with fine, and 2 time offender and alcohol about 70 easily 5years - 6 years suspension and fine from 9 k onwards.

1. Eugene ( wife Viet and he can speak Vietnamese language)  gets 3 mths for turning on red arrow and knocking motor rider who was injured,

2. Craig for riding motor cycle without licences at ECP and additional charge of making false declaration of car sttolen-2 charges 14 days and 3 days jail

3. Some  Grab ride motor on pathway or in front of mall get 300sgd fine each case and so for 2 cases for 600sgd they come in for 1 day.

4. Kenny –stays in Hougang - divorce wife due to money issues- but children already 20+ . Girlfiriend also has 3 young kids. Got road block and fine 11 k and 5 years suspension and in for 5 weeks/ 3weeks. 2nd time offender -alcohol 73 mg.

5. V Ho – cellmate ---- Drink driving second time  get 35 days  (or 5weeks/ serve 2/3 = 3 weeks ) and has to pay LTA for divider damage 38k under RTA. Drink driving hit divider-  fine 17 K and pay 38K to LTA released on 25 Apr 25 and suspended 5 years. Car total loss. He did not use lawyer and say i am lucky  with no fine .

6. Another case tourist bus knock car in front get 4 months. Old man Loh.

7. Another Malay Din  knock motorists who fell. He get 3 weeks and 5 years suspension .

8.          Another guy hit lamp post get 3 weeks/ 2weeks and additonal 3 days for fine $2,200 and suspend 15 mths.

9.          Another guy Chng ( young man that plays tennis )  reverse from road block get 2 weeks and 15 mths.

10.   Shyam 4 weeks jail / serve 3 weeks fine 5 k and pay 1.4 k for damages and 15 mth suspension for drink driving and knocking barrier.

 11.   Simon - get 2 weeks for second time drink driving just 43 mg above 35 - sad case actually he is on bail pending trial and drink the night before and Sunday morning going to site - cross double white lines -mobile police spot check and breath test and fail. As he is Malaysian- not sure his work permit is affected or not.

 12.   My cell mate Teo JV1533-22apr / wife Vietnam about 39 yrs old- Malaysian  got SG citizenship sg in about 9 mths. Motorbike knock him from behind when doing an illegal left turn ( after missing slip road)  and motorist knock him from behind. Legal fees 6.5 k for accident and PG. he make illegal turn- motorist injured - 5 weeks / serve 3 weeks and 5 years suspension.

13.   Another Alvin (drunk)   knock big divider and run - insurance pay for damages but 5 weeks jail/ 3 weeks  and 36 mths suspension. He did not go home immediately as Police were waiting at his house.

14.   Another alcohol 81mg and road block - fine S$700 for no insurance - driving while under suspension - 6 weeks jail and revoke 5 years.

15.   Another Alvin ( fat guy in site safety  construction)  knock taxi  at Lentor / CTE and taxi hit by truck paralysed-  insurance pay S$1 m but he come in for 5 mths.

There are so many accidents and drink driving cases here in jail - so many cases - driving once accident with personal injury, break rules, injury likely to be jail now. The harsh judgement – increase unnecessary sufferings on some families.

Scams – bank cards and singpass

1. Another Min poly grad with sports mgt, now driving Grab food give his Singpass to scammer for commissions and scammer opens several bank acs and scammer scam 3 m and he do not know all these scammers at all maybe from China, he gets 12 mths.

2. Another is Zul working in Wine Connection give his bank acs to scammers for coms maybe 1 k through telegram ( he do not know them and such scam have 3- 4 levels – once scam monies transfer they are transferred out within seconds) and he do not know them. He also got expelled from Bartley Sec Sch for tattoo on the neck and only N levels. he gets 3 mths.

3. Mr See of Hafary for bank card scam - met ang mo from UK in KL – and help him set up company and bank account.  1.3m scam get 8 mths

4. Richard Lim 1569- 22 Apr- cell mate / wife from Shandong China - Grab driver- concentrate on CBD – easily 5-7K per mth Inside for bank card  ( with his friend Ah boy fat guy ) -scam 165 k - 8 mths to 4 mths but pay lawyer 40k. - remission 3 mths- tagging at 1.5 mth on 3 Jun 25.

    
scams

If an investment opportunity appears too good to be true, it most likely is. In the first six weeks of 2025 alone, Singaporeans have lost approximately S$32.6 million to investment scams.*Ή To help you safeguard your investments, please be aware of the common tactics employed by fraudsters:

*Ή Source: Channel News Asia  

How Do These Scams Typically Begin?

Scammers often initiate contact through:
Unsolicited group chats on messaging platforms such as WhatsApp and Telegram
Direct messages from unknown individuals on social media
Fraudulent online advertisements featuring celebrities or public figures, often created using AI or deepfake technology

How Do Scammers Build Trust?

Once contact is established, scammers attempt to gain your confidence by:
Creating fake group chats where purported members showcase significant profits (these individuals are typically part of the scam)
Offering promises of unusually high returns through “exclusive” investment schemes
Providing small initial profits that appear in your account, but subsequently blocking withdrawals

How Are Victims Trapped?

After establishing trust, scammers will:
Encourage further investments by promising even greater returns
Request additional funds to “unfreeze” your account, enabling withdrawal of funds

What Precautions Can You Take?

To protect yourself, we recommend:
Ignoring and blocking messages from unknown contacts or unsolicited group chats
Avoiding money transfers to individuals you have not met personally
Utilizing ad-blocking software to reduce exposure to fraudulent advertisements

 

Other cases – Trafficking etc

Harish pay legal 40 k ( many court sessions) for charge by Nparks for illegal possession and trafficking of pets eg green Turtles. Already exit sg to India – at Indian Customs he got send back with the goods by Indian side.

Another Bangladesh threaten people with knife  -has kidney stone and but Changi Hosp just give medicine and deport him on & may 2025. Release and ICA deport to Bangladesh.

Commercial

1. Bey  just 19 yes old yet NS already has car rental and 2nd hand car biz is here for 12 mths for ontraband cigarettes hide in sofa from Jb and selling them to Bangla. He also has 2nd charge for posessing baton inside car at HDB parking. About 5000 cartons of 10 boxes each and charge for evading 7 m taxes. Basically the truck clear causeway (and cigarettes are hidden in folding bed compartments) and ICA follow him to warehouse in Ubi.

2. Adam – young guy 19 or 20 yrs old- repair HP mainly android phones and install app to withdraw service fee when they log in to do bank transactions yet to go NS get 20 mths for almost 200k. This guy is  a perpetual liar. The above account and what is reported in the news are different. https://www.straitstimes.com/singapore/courts-crime/man-drains-grandmothers-entire-savings-of-280000-lied-that-she-was-scammed

3. Another works at Apple store and advertise staff prices and collect deposits but never deliver the sets , maybe few sets he deliver -no bail. He says parents work in government sector and this is to avoid complications for them.

4. Koh/wife Thai for online gambling for 4 mths released on 29 Apr 25 and additional home detention with tagging for 1 mth. He successfully appeal his case  to High Court - from 8 mths I think– from mastermind to a lower charge.

5. Another guy cheat MBS casino – by communicating with outside party to beat House.

6. Also another uncle get 5 mths for stock rigging insider info.

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Biblical Journey inside cell – reflections

The Lord has watch over me through all this. How could we be joyful incarcerated in prison and asking God why u are not there for me ?  Is it a time for us to focus on you.

Our disappointment becomes His appointment - our mess become the message

Listening to God’ s quiet voice through scriptures and by His Spirit Taking time to prayerfully focus on our attention on God.

As in 3 May25 0BD Pastor Tan Fllipin met na accident and the scan led to tumour discovery- God can use accidents and other adversities for His glory. 

When adversity comes, let us trust God’s perspective and believe Him.

Colossian 4:6 Let your conversation be always full of grace, seasoned with salt, so that you may know how to answer everyone.

OBD 5 May 25 God of fresh start-caused Alfred Nobel to establish award Nobel Prize - when he

realised he is called “ merchant of death is dead”; when people mistaken his brother to be him who passed away. We need humility make a change in the way we are living and turn to Him and He meet us with  and in Grace.

Memorising bible verses

Rm 8:28 All things ...work .

Isaiah 40:31 Waiting upon the  Lord ...mount on wings like eagles

Eph 6 :10 -20 armour of God - 6:19 is good way to start prayer-pray also for me ,that whenever I open my mouth, words may be given me so that I will fearlessly make known the mystery of the gospel for which I am ambassador in chains. Pray that I will declare it fearlessly as I should.

Matt 5  on the beatitudes 8 of them.

Psalms 23 The Lord is our shepherd….

Gal 5:22 Fruits of the spirit L J P  P K G F G S -love joy peace patience kindness goodness faithfulness gentleness and self- control.

Matt 6:33 seek His kingdom first . Such a wonderful time to memorise scriptures and bible verses.

Gal5:19 Drunkenness is a sin but those who belongs to Christ has crucified the sinful nature of desires and passions.

Gal 6:7 A man reap what he sows -if to please sinful - will reap destruction- if we sow to please the HS we will reap eternal life-our end point.

Gal 6:9 Let us not become weary of doing good, for at the appropriate time we will reap harvest if we do not give up.

Gal 6:10 -May my mess be a message to all and families to stop drink driving. So that I can reveal the scriptures as an opportunity to all Christians.

Gal 6:2 -Also during this period , I was inspired to carry each other burdens with comforting thoughts and prayers, withdrawing judgement, as every one carry his own load.

Eph 3: 17-20-God’s prayer for Ephesian in - that God - Now to him who is able to do immeasurably more than all we ask for or imagine,

according to His power that is at work within us.

Matt 7: 7 - - ASK - ask and it will given, SEEK and you will find and KNOCK and the door will be open.

This was shared by Choo- However, if it is not done intentionally, but God lets it happen, they are to flee to a place I will designate. Ie jail where we are.

The 10 commandments   Exodus 20:

“You shall have no other gods before[a] me.

“You shall not make for yourself an image in the form of anything in heaven above or on the earth beneath or in the waters below. You shall not bow down to them or worship them; for I, the Lord your God, am a jealous God, punishing the children for the sin of the parents to the third and fourth generation of those who hate me, but showing love to a thousand generations of those who love me and keep my commandments.

“You shall not misuse the name of the Lord your God, for the Lord will not hold anyone guiltless who misuses his name.

“Remember the Sabbath day by keeping it holy. Six days you shall labor and do all your work, 10 but the seventh day is a sabbath to the Lord your God. On it you shall not do any work, neither you, nor your son or daughter, nor your male or female servant, nor your animals, nor any foreigner residing in your towns. 11 For in six days the Lord made the heavens and the earth, the sea, and all that is in them, but he rested on the seventh day. Therefore the Lord blessed the Sabbath day and made it holy.

12 “Honor your father and your mother, so that you may live long in the land the Lord your God is giving you.

13 “You shall not murder.

14 “You shall not commit adultery.

15 “You shall not steal.

16 “You shall not give false testimony against your neighbor.

17 “You shall not covet your neighbor’s house. You shall not covet your neighbor’s wife, or his male or female servant, his ox or donkey, or anything that belongs to your neighbor.”

Harish share that his gang in India  hold this covenant very seriously

not to  covet others/  neighbour’s wife. 

 

 

My prayers

I have no more words to pray to you except for your Hand to be upon my life. Father I come to you humbly seeking forgiveness for all the wrongs I have committed. For the unexpected turn of events. You teach us that we have to live according to your plan and not what we want. It is a blessing to know that you are my guide and always with me. At this crossroad allow me to hear your small voice and your HS to bring me to people you want me to reach for your namesake especially in prison and can only be reach by me. I pray for the lost, in gangs, in drugs, in CAD cases, in fights and drink driving cases, in false gods, in darkness, give words to show them the way. Thank you for the opportunity to  encounter your Word away from worldly pleasures without distractions , without HP but just talking heart to heart -and the wonderful rest you have given me- to read and memorise and apply them. Truly here, everyday counts - my 11th day ( as was writing this) - Lord you work in mysterious ways-bring me to the places and be at the top of mind , allow me to speak to individuals - persons- you want me to speak to- may good come out of this to save more lives, and reduce drink driving and heartaches to more families. How destructive and hurtful they can be.

Strengthen our faith –  For without faith it is impossible to serve God. As for me, faith sustains me and strengthen my inner being and overcome all struggles as I have seen in KK ( Kota Kinabaru )earthquake  and Hua Lien earth quake and even this  accident. So that when I look back on my life, I have no regrets and can still be of service to others. I am so grateful that you take care of my family wife and children at this time. Their studies, health and safety- help them find good friends and good experiences in their University  and school. Also for my parents that they understand as I have honour them as per your Word. LORD I appreciate my wife for all she has done - the hardships and sacrifices. Teach me to treasure her and encourage and comfort her to not despair in our struggle.

Replace all the anxieties, humiliations, fear , financial matters, ICA application with your peace and your perfect love that cast out all fears.

Lord you have caused me to realise these, pray that you will bless our family abundantly and prepare our hearts to embrace you- knowing that you will supply our needs. That we will isolate all the insecurities and help me adjust to the circle of friends that they will have empathy. Surround us with your angels, with wise counsel, keep us from bad influences and judgement- for you are the perfect judge - and help me forgive any negative retaliation against me and our family as the vengeance is yours in Matt 7.

Thanks for the grace and favour and answering my fervent prayer . Thank you for being there for me and looking into every detail of my life. Your favour and your Hand at work- many times i failed to see the benefit or is numb to what you are doing- that you are helping me. Nevertheless, stretch my faith like a mustard seed- belief moving mountains, let me be a blessing by my words and actions even in this place. With the remaining time of my life , regardless of the situations you put me in, all things work for good for those who love you and who are called by your name. Your light will be on my path- and your Word will reveal yourself to me in each step of my life to sanctify, correct, and provide instruction in righteousness. I give thanks and communion 1Cor 11:23 and Matt 26:26 on Easter 2025. In Jesus name Amen

There is a big harvest waiting  inside and people are seeking and Ken Ho - head of Prison fellowship Services himself ( I was told spent many years in jail 20-30 years in jail for drug )

 A Lament in the Wilderness of Injustice
 

I was involved in a car accident due to drink driving and was incarcerated for 6 weeks- and the judge was unusually harsh in the judgement as my case has been sensationalise, circulated online, as well as extensive media coverage, had amplified the public disquiet. The judge also make several assumptions that I should stop and get out and check when the car moved over uneven terrain, that I might drive and hurt security guards and that i might go on to the road and cause accident., when in fact all these are assumptions. Please help me to write a personal lament, based on the above trouble, plea of respond, a statement of trust that god is listening, a vow and expression of praise that God is in control like phrases from the book of psalms

Here is a personal lament modeled after the Psalms, incorporating your pain, plea for justice, trust in God’s sovereignty, and eventual praise—even amid unresolved suffering.

A Lament in the Wilderness of Injustice

(Inspired by Psalms 13, 22, 31, and 142)

1. CRY OF DISTRESS
"O Lord, how long will You forget me? Forever?
How long will You hide Your face from me?" (Psalm 13:1)

God, I am crushed under the weight of this judgment—
not just the sentence, but the shame, the scorn, the lies.
They have made me a spectacle, a story to be twisted,
a warning tale for others to dissect.
The judge assumed motives I never had,
imagined dangers I never posed.
"I am poured out like water… my bones are out of joint." (Psalm 22:14)

2. PLEA FOR JUSTICE
"Vindicate me, Lord, for I have walked in integrity.
Let the malice of my accusers be exposed." (Psalm 26:1, 35:26)

You know the truth, Lord.
You know I did not act with the recklessness they accuse me of.
You see how fear and public outrage swayed the scales,
how assumptions became verdicts.
"Rise up, O Judge of the earth; pay back to the proud what they deserve." (Psalm 94:2)
But even as I ask for vindication,
I surrender my rage to You.

3. REMEMBRANCE OF GOD’S FAITHFULNESS
"I will remember the deeds of the Lord…
Your path led through the sea, Your way through mighty waters." (Psalm 77:11, 19)

Yet this I call to mind:
You have delivered me before.
You have been my refuge when friends turned away,
my strength when my name was slandered.
"In the past, You have shown me mercy—
will You now abandon me to the dust?" (Psalm 71:9, 20)

4. STATEMENT OF TRUST
"Into Your hands I commit my spirit;
You have redeemed me, Lord, faithful God." (Psalm 31:5)

Though the world brands me a villain,
You call me Yours.
Though the court records condemn me,
You are my Advocate.
"The Lord is close to the brokenhearted;
He saves those crushed in spirit." (Psalm 34:18)
I will wait on You—not for a changed sentence,
but for a changed heart.

5. VOW & PRAISE
"I will sing to the Lord, for He has been good to me." (Psalm 13:6)

If You lift me from this pit, I will proclaim Your mercy.
If You leave me here, I will still say:
"You are God, and Your judgments are right." (Psalm 119:75)
Let the mockers see—not my innocence, but Your grace.
Let the critics witness—not my defense, but my dependence.
"You have turned my mourning into dancing…
my God, I will give You thanks forever." (Psalm 30:11-12)

Key Elements of Your Lament

  • Raw Honesty (like Psalm 137: "How can we sing in a foreign land?")
  • Appeal to God’s Justice (like Psalm 7: "Judge me, O Lord, according to my righteousness.")
  • Trust Despite Unfairness (like Psalm 73: "When my heart was embittered… I am always with You.")
  • Praise as Defiance (like Psalm 42: "Why so downcast, O my soul? Put your hope in God!")

This lament doesn’t demand immediate deliverance but anchors you in the God who hears, sees, and reigns—even when human systems fail. May it be a step toward healing.

"The Lord is a stronghold for the oppressed, a stronghold in times of trouble." (Psalm 9:9)


Alchemist – Paulo Coehl

Reading Alchemist Santiago boy in Andalusia steppes travel from homeland Spain to

Egypt pyramids to look for treasures- along the way- with some bliblical perspectives -story of King Melzhizedek story and 1/10 tithes, Joseph,  gypsies, an alchemist, no one knows where is the  treasures – language e of the heart… starts out on a worldly journey surmounting the obstacles in his

path into a discovery of treasures found within.-following one’s heart- to fulfil one’s journey- seeking God everywhere and finding Him inside us- make u understand more about yourself and life. Nothing is impossible as long as you wish it with all your heart. And whole universe conspired to

make it happen. I hope in the same way-now i can never be alone-I hope whenever I go , people will understand me-and my story - the harsh judgement - it is within my power to build the bridge of reconciliation maybe my case help some families on the unnecessary sufferings - as there are so many accidents and drink driving cases here in jail..

Another interesting point on pg 18, when Someone sees a person everyday, they wind up becoming a part of that person’s life and they want that person to change. If someone is not what others want them to be , the others become angry.

Everyone seems to have a clear idea of how other people should lead their lives, but none about their lives. This is the same feelings that most if not all prison inmates feel about me. They say I have a way of pushing people away, but I feel this is a strength of my character and maybe Godly jealousy.

Do not ignore God’s blessings- ignored blessing can be a curse.

Also learn the language that does not depend on words - then you can understand the world. ALSO about Koran and the 5 obligations of Muslim-

1. believe in on true God,

2. Solat pray 5 times from subuh 5.43 am zuhur 1.06 asar 4.19 magrib 7.10 and isyak 8.19pm ( we hear the mosque Azan calling for prayer to know the time at night),

3. Fasting during Ramadan,

4. Zakat charity to poor, and

5. Muslim pilgrimage to mecca in lifetime. Sometimes it is the thought of Mecca that keep them hopeful and alive- walk 7 rounds and touch the scared stone.

The story of throwing away the last precious stone like all stones as the previous worthless stone found from river .

The story of walking with oil in teaspoon yet looking at all the marvels of the world without forgetting the oil.

Urim and Thummim to read omens- all universe conspire in helping us achieve it.

Rick Warren

Also Rick Warren book Eph1:11. Christ knowing us long before and he is working out in everything and everyone.

Eph 1.11-Long before we first heard of Christ he had his eye on us , had designs on Us for glorious living, part of the overall purpose he is working out in everything and everyone.

Proverbs 78:4 on passing it along to the next generation. Nothing matters more than knowing God’s purpose in your life, nothing can compensate for not knowing him. Your character as a person is the sum of your habits- create good healthy habits and spirituality as well.  

People are driven by materialism -need for approval- their goal in life- eg most valuable things. Life ironically are not things - wealth can be lost - and is not real security.

People are driven by anger and resentment on one hand ( some clam up and internalise it while others explode -both unhealthy and unhelpful- resolution focus on the problem and reconciliation focus on the relationship- we must passionately love the church for its / in spite of its imperfections) and fear of future on the other hand -they forgot perfect love covers all fear.  It is in Christ that we find out who we are and what we are living for.


Review of judgement

In my review of the judgement, I feel it is harsh for a first time offender while others felt that 6 weeks and 36 mth suspension from 7 May 2025 - 7 May 2028  without fine is fair compare to PP ‘s 8 weeks to 12 weeks jail. In hindsight, even if I get away with a fine, there is no stopping the PP to appeal, as the case has been sensationalise.

I reached out to SCC almost the earliest date available to them- on 2 Sep with 2 contractors to look at the damage and to rectify based on the on the method statement and specs approved by them.

I have consistently put forward to my lawyer that my contractor has estimated the costs at $5K and SCC has adopted star rate and their term contractor has elevated the costs ( instead of 1 zinc sheet they replace the whole hut) and also the 3 bollards at 18K. I have offered in writing at 12 K but SCC has demanded 18K. The items of damage are minor- whreas the judge choose to highlight the trail of damage. I have also explained to my lawyer my car is just 2 months old and new  and pretty sound proof  and we normally do not stop check for minor road movements/ noises whereas the judge choose to state that I did not stop and check.  I have also explained to my lawyer that the reason why I left the security office was to go to the corporate office side / dinner areas to look for people to help me lift up the car. The video at accident also show me responding to the security guard. The key issue is that the case is sensationalise by the media- because it is so unique and ought not to have happen unless I am baptising the car. In fact earlier on, when I approach a lawyer, he is of the view that it is difficult to avoid jail – as it is sensationalise.

The journalist seem to be very keen to follow the story and play up the negatives  eg

 instead of stating that I have been clear of any traffic accidents in the last 7-8 years -

 they choose to dig out the very old history.

My lawyer put in 2 written representations to PP to bring it  a lower charge of S 337 of negligence as nobody was injured. They were rejected. He even challenged the judge that some laws on RTA should not apply to me as I was not on the road. I am not sure if we have challenged the statement of fact – if the outcome will be different. My lawyer should

 have scrutinise the PP's statement of facts - as it is not true that i enter the water 2 times- I

 was at the edge where i did a 3 point turn when I saw the water.

The judge even said he struggle to think how to give me a fine- a travesty of justice- and sentence based on unfit to drive, intent to drive home – 15 min for the 8 km to my home, will hit the security guard in the garden, will kill people if I go on the road – that I breach the threshold  and was penalised basing on these presumption. Even prosecutor ‘s video was so dark  that the judge ask PP if  he has a better video as he could not see anything clearly. The prosecutor also concur that I was driving slowly- took 8 mins for the 50 m  ( and not speeding or in a rash manner – more in line with someone who is lost and looking for the way out).  The past violations was so long ago and more than 5 years. It is also inaccurate – I was never ticketed for speeding – it was crossing the red light was at Ang Mo Kio Ave 6 to Ang Mo Kio Ave 8 ( near Yio Chu Kang MRT) due to the car turning so slowly that I could not clear the red light.  The other  violation was double white lines at causeway- towards Singapore customs  to JB moving to the next lane. 

For me I cannot commit any offences on remission – suspended sentence before the LDR  on 20 May 2025  and need  for 5 years to clear my name from 7 May 2025 ie 7 May 2030. We can check what is registrable crimes at AGC website.

When you are looking for God, you look for him in different ways- I also   become very famous here and no hard feelings or judgement - just that my accident is very unique, they all just laugh it off on how it can happen. Must be an idiot or stupid. Some feel it is too harsh, and also some felt that I should challenge the PP statement of facts and newspaper reports are not accurate in the materials facts. I hope this accident can help people stop drink driving just like what my wife - has been saying don’t drink and drive.

Other thoughts

Everything is easy - get use to it- eat sleep reading ST LHZB again and again- remember bible verses chit chat-exercise on tue and Thrs for 1 hrs. And watch movie 1 hrs for on wed and Fri. Just restriction. The cell is clean and we bathe 4 to 5 times a day. I am going out soon - so by 12 pm on 7 May-i suggest go to mum place first.

Keep singing - one lesson I learnt is to learn all the songs and sing them without the lyrics so that you can remember them – eg can sing them without lyrics when you are deserted on an island, floating in the ocean-  to uplift.

Tagging Program – a disappointment

I heard the new tagging for S short sentance (is like apple watch) for those with 2 mths  sentance and L long sentance maybe over 1 year (the tag  is on the leg ) or or longer period.

Looks like you must have a minimum of additional 1 mth or longer until max 1 year for home detention to help you adjust going out. My EDR is 7 May 25(4wks) and LDR is 20 May 25 (6wks)means that I serve 2/3 ( maybe discount public holidays).

I thought I could get early release by home detention for the 2nd 2 weeks --means I release on 22 Apr and serve 2 weeks at home with hand tagging with GPS gadget and curfew back by 10 pm and you can only go out from 12 pm – 3 pm.   At first, I heard if LDR is more than 1 mth ( mine is 42 days) , maybe have. It depends on Prison HQ-whether I can go on tagging program or  release before 7 May . It need more than 1 month to process from HQ to give early release program - home detention. Home program with GPS tag and curfew till 10 pm -I may not get- must be more than 1 month. So i DO NOT GET IT. But continue to pray for it- for early release.

Religious Service

Even for religious service, it take 1 mth for them to process, also religious services.

In my case I submitted on 15 Apr 2025, but during my interview with the Sup Ravin Singh- I told him religious service is so important for me on 2 May 2025. When I go back to my cell- my request which was pending was deleted from the system. But on 4  May while sleeping in my cell,  I was called to join the religious service by Philip Tay from Trinity Christian Center

 

FAMILY

Rapha

News 19 apr ST on NUS high students set to get more research , overseas trip opportunities. Solomon Lim and Vincent Kwok were

mentioned.

17 Apr is Rapha speech day hopefully friends

will not ask too many questions. Rapha start with a prayer everyday for God’s Hand to guide you and ask the HS to walk with you in all decisions.

Congrats to R for SSEF and also Speech Day- awards which I cannot attend. Also heard R was sick and J was stressed over exams and  upcoming internship- - improve network of friends.

Raphael thanks for uplifting me. All things are possible to him that believes- Christ the Lord is in control of papa’s life. Do not despair . do not let the enemy or classmates disturb you with papa’ss case or distract you or create doubt in you from a God filled mission. God has prepared for you. Stay faithful and God always lead us into unknown areas to strengthen our faith- substance of things hoped for and evidence of things not seen. So be strong and faithful. The glory of living is not in the falling but in rising each time you fall.

Jabez

Jabez 30 Mar ST Narcissism is like second hand smoke - read the article and self aware and self reflect because later you are going to lead the family when I am not around. Inflated sense of self importance must be moderated and more empathy and understanding and putting yourself in others position.

From sister Daphne

Daphne - It is frustrating to have your freedom restricted, but take it as a time to train your patience, stay calm ; look at the positive side of all things that happen. Know that your wife, your sons, parents, brothers; sisters are your strongest support. We have your back!

Company matters

Jaslin HR has computed my leave of absence of 17 days ( 10 April to 6 may 2025) – save 3 days from Good Friday, May day and Election day ( we cannot vote inside) offset  and balance leave is 8.5 days.

Vatican

Was told Pope passed on 21 April 25 – Easter Monday and I was released on 7 May 25 when they gather in Vatican to elect the new Pope on 7 may 2025- the day I was released.  Cardinal Robert Francis Prevost ( US)  The new Pope Leo XIV was elected ( Habemus Papam- We have a pope)  on the third voting-  by 133 cardinals from 70 countries– in a secretive voting process – conclave- on 9 May 2025.

Singapore Election

Election some guess 68% 70% and I say 63%.

Final results was 65% and Punggol GRC was very close.

News Article

Everything is going to be over and Born Again new start.

Note: News ST for  8 Apr and 12 Apr ST have  the news my case.

 

Jail – A to Z

We talk a lot about everything. Also make A-Z for jail A-arrest Bbail Cconvict Ddrinkdriving

Eearly Release date Guilty H I Jail K L Mitigation N O P Q R S T U V W X

A  to Z –

A-arrest

B-bail

C-convict, caning

D-drink driving

E-early Release

F-fine

G-guilty

H- hootie

I - incarcerated
J – jail

K

L- long Sentence ( over 1 year)

M- mitigation, medicine

N

O

P- program, punishment cell

Q quarantine

R-remand

S sexual crimes, scam

T tagging, televisit

U

V-visit

W

X

Y- yellow ribbon

Z

谢谢大家 各位 兄弟们的关心。

牢房生活

樟宜监狱 – 202549-414 – 隔离)

大家好,S14022025,我是今年(202549日)入狱的第1402号囚犯,这意味着每个月大约有360人因短期监禁入狱。还有一些人因毒品罪和长期监禁入狱。长期监禁从2005年的0人开始,到2025年大约有34000人。

晚上,我们从法庭被带到樟宜监狱。从202549日起,我服刑了5天,和三个朋友在樟宜监狱的508号牢房隔离。他们都在这里待了3天,等待验血。

早餐是4片涂有草莓酱、巧克力酱或黄油酱的面包,以及一杯茶或咖啡。午餐和晚餐还可以,种类丰富,比如炸鱼、沙丁鱼、鱼饼或鸡肉,搭配蔬菜和水果,比如苹果、香蕉或橙子。

灯会在早上6点亮,下午1点灭,下午4点再亮。我们早上8点吃早饭,1130分吃午饭,下午530分左右吃晚饭。为了打发时间,我的朋友会在早饭和晚餐前安排一套运动计划,225次俯卧撑,1分钟平板支撑,25次仰卧起坐和25次抬腿。这意味着我们一天做6组,也就是32次。还有一些书可以读,比如《波西·杰克逊历险记》(希腊诸神依然鲜活),还有漫画。我的狱友们都分享了他们的故事。

实里兰公园(Selarang Park)——(2025414日至57日,EDR

2025414日,我们花了一整个下午的时间从樟宜搬到了实里兰,那里有更宽敞的院子,也更方便。

实里兰公园有S1 ABC三个牢房,我们住在S1 CA座和B座各有两个侧楼)。我当时在S1 CA座)。(每个牢房最多可容纳5-8人)。牢房干净整洁,前面有开放式格栅,后面有卫生、淋浴和洗手盆——我们必须佩戴写有姓名、号码和条形码的蓝色硅胶腕带。我们被限制在牢房内,每天要进行三次考勤。每天早上 7:30 左右 BF 之前,L 之后下午 12:30D 之后晚上 7:30 - 他们称之为集合点名 - 午餐时间是体检,也就是说午餐时间有时狱警会经过进行体检,我们会说“下午好,先生 - 集合 6/7/8,谢谢先生” - 具体取决于人数。我们坐在监室摄像头前进行点名,比如露面点名,前 4 个人坐下,后排站在摄像头后面。

我的牢房有开放式格栅,可以看到外面的树木。它可以睡 8 个人 - 现在有 6 个人-有时会有新人进来,或者囚犯在下午 5 点被转移到其他牢房。 例如 Teo Vera 被释放或转移。Teo 是做手表生意的,我们了解到劳力士不是一家公司。我们还从 Bey 那里了解到,他们可以从当铺买到劳力士。

每周清洗牢房 3 (晚饭后)。每个星期二、星期四和星期天,我们都会清洗牢房,它干得很快。每个星期二和星期四我们有时间去院子里玩。当下雨时篮球场湿了,我们就会转到白天的活动时间比如看电影——我们别无选择,只能看电影。报纸已经晚了两周,比如关税新闻和一些选举前新闻。每天早上吃 4 片面包——周五吃草莓面包,周四吃巧克力面包,另一天涂黄油面包,配茶或咖啡。午餐有热米饭和 1 份蔬菜(煮过头),还有煮鸡蛋、鱼饼​​、沙丁鱼、3 根香肠……和一个水果,比如苹果、橙子或香蕉。在室内呆太久真的会便秘。

只有周四可以见面,其他日子都可以电话拜访——一个月只有 2 次。我每天都可以收到邮件,也就是说第二天就能收到邮件。一个月的配额是 4 封信或 4 次,但每封信只能发 8000 - - 所以我们通常会保存草稿并在稍后发送。他们会筛选每封邮件,需要 2 天时间才能到达我家人手中。

有时我们有一些因为下颌问题而患有睡眠障碍的人,他们需要使用“Cepas”某种吹风机才能入睡。两个新来的家伙 Richard Lim Teo Jae Voon 打呼噜像猪一样 - 鼾声大得让我无法入睡。另一个干扰是有时在晚上 9 30 分熄灯后 - 隔壁牢房仍在大声说话和笑声。(听说他们在交换前女友的故事......等等)或向隔壁牢房喊叫(一个人对着楼上的另一个人喊叫)。无论如何很快就会出去。

一切都比我想象的要好。现在在 8 人牢房里。事实上,这是一次很棒的经历,例如免费每日洗衣、医疗和药物、每周21小时的户外运动时间(下雨取消跑步),每周31小时的电影,例如我们观看了带字幕的印地语电影(盲人目睹谋杀)和关于性勒索的英文电影(故事发生在美国和匈牙利)。我们可以在图书馆借书,并在周日参加教堂礼拜。我读了3本小说——Kevin Kwan的《疯狂的亚洲富人》、炼金术士、《凯恩与亚伯》Kane and Abel等,还有LZZBST报纸,但有旧报纸.

基本上,在牢房里,我们尽量吃饭、睡觉、做一些轻微的运动(实际上不允许),每天洗澡5次。如果下雨的话,牢房里有敞开的格栅,因此非常凉爽。。我的牢房里一度只有五个人。

我朋友有圣经,他们也会分享圣经经文. 我努力背诵经文——很多,比如登山宝训、圣餐、神的军装、诗篇23篇、134篇、箴言3篇……我读马太福音、启示录、使徒行传、约翰一书、加拉太书等等,并给他们讲以斯帖的故事(The Story of Esther)就像今天以色列正在发生的事情一样。我读圣经,并与基督徒弟兄和非信徒分享。

Mohan RajPalaniDouglas Goh等狱警和监狱长都像朋友一样友好,鼓励我们下次在外面见到他们时主动打招呼。

医疗

在监狱里,医生说监狱必须照顾我。他们想强迫我服用心脏病药物——因为他认为我的心脏病发作了——我无法拒绝。他们几乎每天都要量血压——任何人都可以随时报病。不过,后来医生让我签了一封“放行证明”(因为我告诉他我之前停药了),这样我就不用再吃任何药了。出狱时,医生甚至给我开了转诊单,去综合诊所和盛港医院做后续检查。

操场时间

每周二和周四,在1小时的操场时间里,我们会提供干净的袜子,但鞋子是共用的。我通常会在篮球场和羽毛球场上跑30分钟,做30组俯卧撑、钻石俯卧撑、胸式俯卧撑和蜘蛛俯卧撑——非常棒的锻炼。

电影室

每周一、三、五,我们都会去外面看1小时电视,或者理发(由狱友理发)和剪指甲。为了简短起见,我在414日第一天理了头发——希望我出院时头发能长出来。

 在牢房里,就像一个大咖啡店。我们分享故事——即使在里面,每个人都在谈论我的案子——就像名人一样。

我的牢房里有动静——所以我们了解进来的人所犯下的所有类型的罪行——每天谈论和分享他们所犯下的各种罪行——不同程度的量刑——银行卡、Singpass、诈骗、网络赌场在线赌博、妇女宪章罪、家庭虐待儿童、网上约会和未成年女孩的性犯罪、酒后驾驶撞击障碍物、路标、分隔线、交通事故撞人直至瘫痪、驾驶员、非法转弯、第二次犯罪、无证驾驶、口头威胁、持刀威胁、叉车事故、旅游巴士撞击出租车、手机维修店将应用程序放入您的安卓手机、工地施工事故、内幕交易罪、利用发票欺骗政府的商业罪、走私香烟逃避消费税和关税、从泰国贩运海龟侵犯国家公园、狂欢派对和经同意拍摄......等了解了很多关于新加坡这座大监狱的情况。最终,我于57日上午11点左右获释,和家人共进午餐,然后去TP领取护照。

就在获释前一周,监狱服务部门还举办了几场讲座——讲解黄丝带计划,以及诈骗研讨会和课程,帮助我们了解各种骗局——银行卡、SingPass、爱情骗局、求职骗局、SIM卡、电话骗局、网络钓鱼数据、投资骗局,例如交通事故骗局——他们会敲你的门,要求你根据他们的说法报警,给你钱,然后他们就会索赔。拥有公积金的保险老人很容易受到爱情骗局的侵害,例如印度尼西亚和菲律宾……以及新加坡的所有案件。骗局的类型、什么是骗局、新加坡的骗局案例统计等等。

墙壁/走廊上有许多标语

这里的墙壁和走廊上有许多格言:

1. 找到自我的最好方法就是忘我地为他人服务——甘地

2. 永远不要让你想要的东西忘记你拥有的东西。

3. 在任何抉择的时刻,最好的选择是做正确的事,其次是做错误的事,最糟糕的选择是什么都不做——富兰克林·D·罗斯福

4. 在改变改变你之前,掌控自己,拥抱它。

5. 生活的荣耀不在于永不跌倒,而在于每次跌倒后都能重新站起来——纳尔逊·曼德拉。

6. 值得信赖,建立信任需要时间,破坏只需几秒钟,但修复信任却需要一生。

监狱 – A Z

我们谈论很多事情。也请用 A-Z 表示监狱 A-逮捕 B-保释 C-罪犯 D-酒驾

E-提前释放日期 有罪 H I-监狱 K L-减刑 N O P Q R S T U V W X

A Z –

A-逮捕

B-保释

C-罪犯,鞭刑

D-酒驾

E-提前释放

F-罚款

G-有罪

H-骚动

I-监禁

J-监狱

K

L-长期徒刑(超过 1 年)

M-减刑,药物

N

O

P-项目,惩戒室 chengjieshi

Q-隔离

R-还押

S-性犯罪,诈骗

T-标记,电视会见

U

V-会见

W

X

Y-黄丝带

Z

+++++++

我试着列出所有罪行和判决的清单。

妇女宪章案件

1. 另一起马来家庭案件——继女吸烟者指控继父Wan5年前她未成年时触碰她,还对她大喊大叫。他要求判处4徒刑——2年因大喊大叫,2年因妇女宪章——上诉至高等法院——律师费2.6万新元——最终获得4个月的徒刑。,继女对继父感到愤怒并指控他。事情发生在5年前幸运的是,继母支持他。

2. Ng Shawn——中国象棋超级高手——赢了我6次——被告知故意撞到一位女士的头,而那位女士大喊大叫,他因性骚扰被捕。徒刑6个月,没有程序。(性犯罪没有程序家-庭拘留计划)。

3. 另一名男子Tan(一名出租车司机)——在商场自动扶梯上偷拍裙底——闭路电视录像被共享到最近的地铁站以匹配他——并通过EZ Link卡追踪到他的地址并将其逮捕。

4. 另一名男子——在网上约会——与未成年女孩约会,并在约会期间发生性行为,之后被女孩父母举报,并被逮捕,不得保释。他正在等待审判,可能会被鞭刑。

5. 另一名年轻男子Alvin制作色情视频并发布到ChatgpChatgp上有47名成员参加群交、派对和自愿性行为。他因持有色情视频被罚款2万新元,并因担任群管理员(因为他设法让群成员签署了同意书)被监禁5周。群里一位Angmo的男朋友和女朋友抱怨。因此,色情视频不能存储在手机惠普或电脑中。

家庭——虐待儿童案——

父亲用藤条打孩子,社工发现孩子身上有瘀伤并报警。他被判处1年监禁,母亲因没有阻止和保护孩子被判处6个月监禁。

另一名32岁的越南男子在争吵中殴打了21岁的女友,并被女友举报,被判入狱4周。但他逾期居留(超过8年)被判入狱4年,罚款8500新元,鞭刑3下。逾期居留超过12个月将被鞭刑3下。我还注意到另一名越南年轻人也因打架入狱——他们似乎喜欢打架。

另一名男子利用约会网站与未成年女孩约会,并根据《妇女宪章》对未成年女孩实施性侵犯和渗透指控,但尚未宣判——不得保释。

一些人是因为打架——一个叫本杰明的男子在克拉码头喝醉后殴打了一名警察——我想他被判3周,其他人也因为打架被判了3周。

我想。希望我们能够学习、理解并避免所有这些问题。

交通案件

许多交通事故和酒驾案件的时长约为4周到3个月。有些人在驾照被吊销期间驾驶,如果发生事故,将被判入狱4-6周。无证驾驶2周监禁,如果是DD,如果发生事故,则监禁5-6周并处以罚款,两次违规且酒精含量在70左右,很容易被停职5-6年,并处以9千元及以上罚款。

1. Eugene(妻子Viet,他会说越南语)因在红灯亮时转弯并撞伤摩托车骑手而被判处3个月监禁。

2. CraigECP无证驾驶摩托车,并被指控虚假申报汽车被盗——两项指控分别被判处14天监禁和3天监禁。

3. 一些Grab司机在人行道上或商场前驾驶摩托车,每起案件罚款300新元,因此,两起案件每起600新元,他们被判处1天监禁。

4. Kenny——住在后港——因经济问题与妻子离婚——但孩子已经20多岁了。女友也有3个年幼的孩子。被封路,第二次违规者 - 酒精含量73毫克。罚款11,000新元,被判处5年驾驶禁令,被判入狱5/3周。

5. Vincent Ho – 狱友 - 第二次酒驾被判35天(或5/服刑2/3 = 3周),并根据RTA的规定向陆路交通管理局支付38,000新元的分隔线损坏赔偿金。酒驾撞上分隔线 - 罚款17,000新元,于2025425日获释,被判处5年驾驶禁令。汽车全损。他没有聘请律师,并说我很幸运没有被罚款。

6. 另一起案件中,旅游巴士撞到前面的一辆小车,被判处4个月缓刑。老卢先生。

7. 另一名马来人Din撞倒了其他司机。他被判入狱3周,被判处5年驾驶禁令。

8. 另一名男子撞到路灯柱,被判入狱3/2周,另加3天罚款2200新元,被判处15个月驾驶禁令.

9. 另一名男子Chng(一位打网球的年轻人)在路障后倒车,被判入狱2 被判处15个月驾驶禁令.

10. Shyam因酒驾撞到护栏被判入狱4/3周罚款,5000新元,并支付1,400新元的损害赔偿金,并被判处15个月驾驶禁令。

11. Simon - 第二次酒驾,酒精含量仅比35毫克高出43毫克,被判入狱2周。这真是个令人悲伤的案例,实际上他正在保释候审,前一天晚上喝酒,周日早上去现场时,他越过了双白线,被警方突击检查和呼气测试,结果不合格。由于他是马来西亚人,不确定他的工作准证是否受到影响。

12. 我的狱友 Teo Jae Voon1533-22apr / 妻子越南,约39 - 马来西亚公民,约9个月后获得新加坡公民身份。他非法左转时(误入岔道后),被摩托车从后面撞倒,另一名司机也从后面撞倒了他。律师费6.5新元,涉及交通事故和PG。他非法左转 - 司机受伤 - 监禁5 / 服刑3周,并被停职5年驾驶禁令.

13. 另一名Alvin(醉酒)撞到大型护栏后逃跑——保险公司赔偿损失,但被判入狱5/服刑3, 驾驶禁令 36个月。他没有立即回家,因为警察在他家等着。

14. 另一名Alvin酒精含量高达81毫克,被路障封路——罚款700新元,无保险——在停职期间驾驶——被判入狱6周,吊销驾照5i.e 5年驾驶禁令。

15. 另一名Alvin(工地安全施工的胖子)在Lentor/CTE撞到出租车,被卡车撞瘫痪——保险公司赔偿100万新元,但他被判入狱5个月。

这里发生了很多事故和酒驾案件,很多案件都被判入狱——一旦发生事故造成人身伤害,违反规定,受伤,现在可能就要入狱。严厉的判决——给一些家庭增加不必要的痛苦。

诈骗——银行卡和SingPass

1. 另一名民理工学院毕业生,拥有体育管理学位,现在开Grab外卖。他把自己的SingPass交给骗子,骗子开了几家银行账户,骗走了300万新元,而他根本不认识这些骗子,可能来自中国。他被判了12个月。

2. 另一名在Wine Connection工作的Zul,他把自己的银行账户交给骗子,通过Telegram骗取了大约100万新元(他根本不认识这些骗子,这类骗局有3-4个层级——一旦骗款到账,几秒钟内就会转出),而他根本不认识这些骗子。他还因为脖子上的纹身被巴特礼中学开除,而且只有N层级。他被判了3个月。

3. HafarySee先生因银行卡诈骗——他在吉隆坡遇到了来自英国的Ang Mo——并帮助他设立公司和银行账户。 130新元诈骗,获刑8个月.

4. Richard Lim 1569422日,狱友/妻子,来自中国山东,Grab司机,专注于CBD,每月轻松赚取5-7千新元,把银行账户给朋友银,Ah boy fat guy,骗16.5万新元,8个月到4个月减刑3个月,万日以1.5个月的期限50% 用于居家拘留 202563.但支付律师费4新元。

其他案件——贩卖, 威胁..

Harish因非法持有和贩卖宠物(例如绿海龟)而被国家公园管理局指控,并支付了4万新元的法律费用(多次出庭)。他已离开新加坡前往印度,在印度海关,他被印度方面连同货物一起遣返回国。

另一名孟加拉国男子用刀威胁他人,他患有肾结石,但樟宜医院只给他开了药,并于20255月将他驱逐出境。释放后,移民局将他遣返回孟加拉国。

商业犯罪

1. Bey年仅19岁,却已在新加坡从事汽车租赁和二手车业务,他在这里已经待了12个月,罪名是将走私香烟藏在新山的沙发里卖给孟加拉人。他还被控在组屋停车场车内藏有警棍。他持有约5000条,每条10盒,并被控逃税700万新元。他基本上是卡车清理堤道(香烟藏在折叠床隔间里),然后移民局(ICA)跟踪他到乌比的仓库。

2. Adam – 1920岁的年轻人,主要修理惠普安卓手机,并安装应用程序以便在登录银行进行交易时提取服务费,但他还没有去新加坡。他获得了20个月的NS服务,花费近20万新元。这家伙是个老骗子。上述说法与新闻报道不同。案件实际上是 耗尽祖母全部28万积蓄并谎称自己被骗 https://www.straitstimes.com/singapore/courts-crime/man-drains-grandmothers-entire-savings-of-280000-lied-that-she-was-scammed

3. 另一人在苹果商店工作,宣传员工价格,收取押金,但从未送过设备,可能只送过几台——没有保释金。他说他的父母在政府部门工作。

一些狱友

Choo WC / 妻子 美国绿卡

上帝差遣他来和我分享圣经。

他的案子拖了7年多,调查时间很长,护照被扣押了7年多。他是三一教会的朋友,他分享了一个美好的见证,讲述了他在案子审理前关闭生意,找人接手,包括HDB商店,以及这件事如何在他和妻子信主后让他们更加亲近。他们非常依赖属灵的父母。过去每周吵三次架。

分享并强调了与妻子之间所有的问题,以及她总是如何应对——他不吃饭就扔食物,对孩子很严格,没有童年,还骑自行车,他很生气,她对教会成员撒谎,他去MBS做一份重要的工作,孩子们生病了。当他们达成一致时,他正在度假。他是个狂热的钓鱼爱好者——在日本和马尔代夫。Choo有一家儿童自行车店(他花了3个月时间向另一位老板学习,然后自己开办了一家),而且已经卖掉了。他分享了他的见证,上帝帮助他安排接管他的工程车间,之后他才进来。

他犯有共谋罪(他作为分包商提供有折扣的发票,但总承包商却不给政府折扣就保释政府,并将钱财中饱私囊),在68张发票中骗取了4.5万新元。主要骗子被判2年徒刑,罚款20万。在漫长的调查中,所有政府官员都没有参与, 一切都很清楚。他自2018年以来一直处于保释状态,将近7年。他服刑10个月,之后又减刑了6-7个月。他于2025124日入狱,从202533日起入狱101天,并于202556日因标签计划获释。他也是GrabTada的司机,他们分享小费并分享他们挑选的乘客。Grab里呕吐和有人拉屎的问题,以及在哪里可以清理它们(靠近哈夫洛克)。

我们甚至讨论了酒驾代客泊车业务未来应该会流行起来,或许可以自己开一家。

Harish – 黄金 1510-422

Harish 先生是印度裔新加坡永久居民,妻子和孩子都是新加坡公民。两个女儿23岁时就结婚了,在盛港安谷(Sengkang Anchorvale)买了二手公寓——他的策略是持有几处房产。他拥有3家餐厅(1家在Geylang 33巷,另2家在义顺),还有2个女儿20多岁左右结婚,并在盛港安谷(AnchorVale)买了二手公寓——他说这是最快的致富之路。

他分享了如何购买黄金并保存(他有5公斤)——在Dunlop街的AniMinora,或者小印度(Little India)的任何商店购买——例如,11个月定期支付3000新元,12个月期间可获得3000新元,或者相当于你购买的黄金。

对于新加坡公民身份,他说只要继续申请,他们就会批准。对于永久居民身份,只要你留在这里,你可以在到期前3个月继续延长入境期限。

牢房里的圣经之旅——反思

主一直在看顾我,帮助我度过这一切。身陷囹圄,我们怎能喜乐,却要问上帝,为什么你不在我身边?现在是不是我们该专注于你的时候了?

我们的失望成为祂的安排——我们的困境成为祂的信息。

通过经文和圣灵聆听上帝安静的声音。花时间祷告,将我们的注意力集中在上帝身上。

正如OBD 202553日,Tan Fllipin牧师遭遇意外,扫描结果发现了肿瘤——上帝可以利用意外和其他逆境来荣耀祂自己。当逆境来临时,让我们信靠上帝的视角,并相信祂。

歌罗西书 4:6 你们的言语要常常带着和气,好像用盐调和,就可知道该怎样回答各人。

OBD 202555 上帝赐予我们新的开始——促使阿尔弗雷德·诺贝尔设立诺贝尔奖——当他 意识到自己被称为“死亡商人已经死了”时;当人们误以为他的兄弟就是那位已故的人时。我们需要谦卑,改变我们的生活方式,转向祂,祂会以恩典与我们同在。

背诵圣经经文

罗马书 8:28 凡事……都要努力。

以赛亚书 40:31 等候耶和华……如鹰展翅上腾

以弗所书 6:10-20 神的军装——以弗所书6:19 是开始祷告的好方法——也为我祷告,使我得着口才,能以无畏地讲明福音的奥秘,我为此作了带锁链的使者。求祢使我能无畏地讲明福音的奥秘,正如我所当做的。

马太福音 5:3-10 论八福中的八福。

诗篇 23 耶和华是我们的牧者……

加拉太书 5:22 圣灵的果子 L J P P K G F G S - 仁爱、喜乐、和平、忍耐、恩慈、良善、信实、温柔、节制。

马太福音 6:33 先求他的国。这是背诵经文和圣经经文的好时机。

加拉太书 5:19 醉酒是罪,但那些属于基督的人,是已经把情欲和邪情私欲的肉体钉在十字架上了。

加拉太书 6:7 人种的是什么,收的也是什么。若顺着罪撒种,就收败坏;若顺着神的心意撒种,就收永生——我们的终点。

加拉太书 6:9 我们行善,不可丧志;因为若不灰心,到了适当的时候就要收成。

加拉太书 6:10 – 我们要把握机会为众人做善事,对待信徒更要如此。

愿我的混乱成为向所有人和家庭发出的信息,叫他们停止酒后驾驶。这样,我就可以将经文作为向所有基督徒传讲的机会。

加拉太书 6:2 - 在此期间,我受到启发,要用安慰的思想和祷告互相担当重担,不要评判,因为各人都要担当自己的担子。

以弗所书 3:17-20 - 神为以弗所人祷告 - 求神 - 照着运行在我们心里的大力,充充足足地成就一切,超过我们所求所想的。

马太福音 7:7 - - 祈求 - 祈求就必得着;寻找就必寻见;叩门就必开门。

这是 Choo-3 分享的。然而,如果不是故意为之,而是神允许的,他们就要逃到我指定的地方。也就是我们现在所在的监狱。

十诫 出埃及记 20:

3 “除了我以外,你不可有别的神

4 “不可为自己雕刻偶像,也不可做什么形像仿佛上天、下地和地底下、水中的百物。5 不可跪拜那些像,也不可事奉它,因为我耶和华你的神是忌邪的神。恨我的,我必追讨他的罪,自父及子,直到三四代;6 爱我、守我诫命的,我必向他们发慈爱,直到千代。

7 “不可妄称耶和华你神的名;因为妄称他名的,耶和华必不以他为无罪。

8 “当记念安息日,守为圣日。9 六日要劳碌做你一切的工,10 但第七日是向耶和华你神当守的安息日。这一日,你和你的儿女、仆婢、牲畜,并你城里寄居的外人,无论何工都不可做。11 因为六日之内,耶和华造天、地、海,和其中的万物,第七日便安息了。所以耶和华赐福与安息日,定为圣日。

12 “当孝敬父母,使你的日子在耶和华你神所赐你的地上得以长久。

13 “不可杀人

14 “不可奸淫。

15 “不可偷盗。

16 “不可作假见证陷害人。

17 “不可贪恋人的房屋。也不可贪恋人的妻子、仆婢、牛驴,并他一切所有的。”

Harish 分享说,他在印度的团伙非常重视这个契约,不会贪图他人/邻居的妻子。

我的祈祷

除了祈求您的手扶持我的生命,我已无话可说。天父,我谦卑地来到您面前,祈求您宽恕我所犯下的一切错误,以及那些意想不到的变故。您教导我们,我们必须按照您的计划生活,而不是随心所欲。知道您是我的指引,始终与我同在,这真是一种祝福。在这十字路口,请让我聆听您微小的声音和您的圣言,带我去见那些您希望我以您的名义去接触的人,尤其是在监狱里,只有我才能接触到他们。我为迷失的人祈祷,为那些身陷帮派、毒品、冠状动脉疾病、斗殴和酒驾、假神和黑暗的人祈祷,请赐予他们指引方向。感谢您给我机会,让我远离世俗的享乐,不受任何干扰,没有心理障碍,只是心与心的交流,去体验您的圣言——感谢您赐予我美好的安息——去阅读、背诵并实践您的圣言。真的,在这里,每一天都很重要——这是我的第11天(当时我正在写这篇文章)——主啊,你以奇妙的方式行事——带我到那些地方,让我时刻保持清醒,让我与那些你希望我与之交谈的人交谈——愿这一切带来好处,拯救更多生命,减少酒驾和更多家庭的痛苦。它们是多么具有破坏性和伤害性啊!

坚固我们的信心——因为没有信心就不可能侍奉神。对我来说,信心支撑着我,坚固我的内心,克服了我在亚庇(Kota Kinabaru)哥打京那巴鲁地震、华联地震,甚至这次事故中所经历的一切挣扎。这样,当我回顾自己的一生时,我就不会后悔,仍然可以为他人服务。我非常感激你这段时间照顾我的家人、妻子和孩子。感谢你为他们的学业、健康和安全,保护和照顾——帮助他们在大学和学校找到好朋友,获得美好的经历。也感谢我的父母,愿他们理解我按照你的话语去尊重他们。主啊,我感谢妻子为我所做的一切——她的艰辛和牺牲。求祢教导我珍惜她,鼓励和安慰她,使她在我们奋斗的过程中不至于绝望。

用祢的平安和祢完美的爱,驱散一切恐惧,取代所有的焦虑、羞辱、恐惧、经济问题和ICA申请。

主啊,祢让我明白这些,求祢丰丰富富地祝福我们一家,预备我们的心来拥抱祢——知道祢会供应我们的所需。求祢使我们能隔绝一切不安全感,帮助我适应朋友圈,让他们体谅我。求祢用祢的天使和智慧的劝告环绕我们,使我们免受不良影响和论断——祢是完美的审判者——求祢帮助我饶恕任何针对我和我们家人的负面报复,因为在马太福音第7章,报应在祢的手中。

感谢祢的恩典和恩惠,并回应我热切的祷告。感谢祢一直陪伴着我,并看顾我生活的每一个细节。祢的恩惠和祢的手在动工——很多时候,我没能体会祢的帮助,或对祢的作为麻木不仁。然而,求祢像芥菜种一样,将我的信心广施,使我移山,让我即使在此地也能用我的言行成为祝福。在我余生中,无论祢将我置于何种境地,万事都互相效力,叫爱祢和称为祢名下的人得益处。祢的光将照亮我的道路——祢的话语将在我的人生每一步中向我启示,使我成圣、归正,并教导我行义。2025年复活节,我感恩并领受哥林多前书11:23和马太福音26:26-27。奉耶稣的名,阿门。

里面有丰收的果实在等待着我们,人们正在寻求,Ken Ho——监狱团契服务负责人(我听说他因毒品入狱多年,20-30年).

诗篇哀歌

我因酒驾遭遇车祸,被判入狱六周。由于我的案件被炒作、网络传播以及媒体的广泛报道,加剧了公众的不安,法官的判决异常严厉。法官还做出了一些假设,比如在车辆行驶到不平坦的路面时,我应该停车下车查看;我可能会开车撞到保安;我可能会继续上路造成事故。但事实上,所有这些都只是假设。请帮助我写一篇个人哀歌,内容基于上述困境、回应的请求、相信上帝正在倾听的声明、像诗篇中引用的经文一样,发誓并表达对上帝掌控一切的赞美。

这是一篇以诗篇为蓝本的个人哀歌,融入了你的痛苦、对正义的祈求、对上帝主权的信靠,以及即使在未解决的苦难中也最终的赞美。

不公旷野中的哀歌

(灵感来自诗篇132231142篇)

1. 痛苦的呼喊

“耶和华啊,你要到几时忘记我?直到永远?

你要到几时掩面不顾我?”(诗篇13:1

神啊,我被这审判的重压压垮了——

不仅仅是判决,还有羞辱、蔑视和谎言。

他们把我变成了一个奇观,一个被扭曲的故事,

一个供他人剖析的警世故事。

审判官揣测了我从未有过的动机,

臆想了我从未有过的危险。

“我如水被倒出来……我的骨头都脱了节。” (诗篇 22:14

2. 祈求公义

“耶和华啊,求你为我伸冤,因我行事正直。

愿控告我之人的恶毒被显露。”(诗篇 26:135:26

主啊,你知道真理。

你知道我并非像他们指控的那样鲁莽行事。

你看到恐惧和公众的愤怒如何左右着天平,

假设如何变成了判决。

“审判世界的主啊,求你兴起,报应骄傲人所应得的。”(诗篇 94:2

但即使我祈求公义,

我也将我的愤怒交托给你。

3. 记念上帝的信实

“我要记念耶和华的作为……

你的路穿过海洋,你的道路穿过大水。” (诗篇 77:11, 19

然而,我记念这事:

你先前拯救了我。

朋友离弃我的时候,你是我的避难所;

我名被毁的时候,你是我的保障。

“你从前曾怜悯我,如今你却要将我撇弃于尘土吗?”(诗篇 71:9, 20

4. 信靠的声明

“我将我的灵魂交在你手里;主啊,信实的神啊,你救赎了我。”(诗篇 31:5

尽管世人称我为恶棍,

你仍称我为你的。

尽管法庭记录谴责我,

你仍是我的辩护人。

“耶和华靠近伤心的人,

拯救灵性痛悔的人。”(诗篇 34:18

我要等候你——不是等候改变的判决,

而是等候一颗改变的心。

5. 许愿与赞美

“我要向耶和华歌唱,因他用厚恩待我。”(诗篇 13:6

若祢将我从这深渊中救拔出来,我必宣告祢的慈爱。

若祢将我撇在深渊,我仍要说:

“祢是神,祢的审判公义。”(诗篇 119:75

让嘲笑者看到的,不是我的无辜,而是祢的恩典。

让批​​评者见证的,不是我的辩护,而是我的依靠。

“祢已将我的哀哭变为跳舞……我的神啊,我要永远感谢祢。” (诗篇 30:11-12

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哀歌的关键要素

• 坦诚诚实(如诗篇 137 篇:“我们怎能在外邦歌唱?”)

• 祈求上帝的公义(如诗篇 7 篇:“耶和华啊,求你按我的义审判我。”)

• 不公却信靠(如诗篇 73 篇:“我心里忧愁的时候,……我常与祢同在。”)

• 以赞美为反抗(如诗篇 42 篇:“我的心哪,为何这样忧闷?当仰望神!”)

这哀歌并非要求立即得救,而是将你锚定在垂听、看见并掌管一切的上帝身上——即使在人类系统崩溃的时候。愿这哀歌成为你迈向医治的一步。

“耶和华是受欺压者的保障,是患难时的保障。”(诗篇 9:9

监狱读书

我在监狱里读过的一些书

炼金术士——保罗·科尔 Paul Coehl

阅读《炼金术士圣地亚哥》——安达卢西亚草原上的小男孩,从家乡西班牙前往埃及,在金字塔寻宝——沿途融入圣经视角——麦尔日洗德王的故事、十分之一的什一税、约瑟、吉普赛人、炼金术士,无人知晓宝藏所在——心灵之语……开启一段尘世之旅,克服重重障碍,

最终发现内心的宝藏。——追随内心,完成旅程——在各地寻找上帝,并在我们内心深处找到他——让你更深入地了解自己和人生。只要你全心全意地渴望,一切皆有可能。整个宇宙都在协力,

让这一切成为现实。我也怀着同样的希望——现在我不再孤单——我希望无论何时离开,人们都能理解我——以及我的故事——那严厉的审判——我有能力搭建起一座和解的桥梁,也许我的案例能帮助一些家庭减轻不必要的痛苦——因为监狱里

有太多的事故和酒驾案件……

18页还有一点很有趣,当人们每天都见到一个人时,他们最终会成为这个人生活的一部分,并希望这个人改变。如果一个人不是别人希望他们成为的样子,其他人就会生气。

似乎每个人都清楚地知道别人应该如何生活,但对自己的生活却一无所知。大多数(如果不是全部)囚犯对我也有同样的感受。他们说我有一种疏远别人的方式,但我觉得这是我性格中的优点,也许是出于上帝的嫉妒。

不要忽视上帝的祝福——忽视祝福可能是一种诅咒。

学习不依赖于文字的语言——这样你就能理解世界。

此外,还有关于《古兰经》和穆斯林的五项义务:

1. 信仰真主;

2. 每天进行五次夜间祈祷,从早上5:43的宵礼到凌晨1:06的朝觐礼,下午4:19的宵礼,晚上7:10的宵礼,以及晚上8:19的宵礼(晚上我们会听到清真寺的唤礼声来确认时间);

3. 斋月期间斋戒;

4. 为穷人缴纳天课;以及

5. 穆斯林一生中要前往麦加朝圣。有时,对麦加的思念让他们充满希望,保持活力——绕麦加朝圣七圈,触摸那颗神圣的石头。

这个故事讲述了一个像所有石头一样,把最后一块珍贵的石头扔掉的故事,就像从河里捡到之前毫无价值的石头一样。

这个故事讲述了一个茶匙里盛着油,却在欣赏世间奇观时,却从未忘记油的故事。

乌陵和土明预示预兆——全宇宙都在合力帮助我们实现它。

瑞克·沃伦 Rick Warren

另见瑞克·沃伦的《以弗所书》1:11基督早已认识我们,祂在万事万物中运行。

以弗所书 1:11——早在我们第一次听说基督之前,祂就看顾我们,为我们规划了荣耀的生活,这是祂在万事万物中运行的总体目标的一部分。

箴言 78:4 教导我们将其传承给下一代。没有什么比了解上帝在你生命中的旨意更重要,没有什么可以弥补不认识祂的损失。你的品格是由你的习惯所构成的——养成良好健康的习惯,并提升灵性。

人们被物质主义——需要认可——所驱动,这是他们人生的目标——例如最宝贵的事物。讽刺的是,生命并非物质——财富可能会失去——也不是真正的安全感。

人们一方面被愤怒和怨恨所驱使(有些人会闭口不谈,将其内化,而另一些人则会爆发——这两种情绪既不健康也无益——解决问题的重点在于问题本身,而和解的重点在于关系本身——我们必须热爱教会,即使它有缺陷),另一方面又对未来心怀恐惧——他们忘记了完美的爱能够掩盖一切恐惧。正是在基督里,我们才找到了自我,以及我们为何而活。

判决复核

我复核了判决,认为对于初犯来说,判决过于严厉。而其他人则认为,与PP8周至12周监禁相比,被判处63监禁,36个月驾驶禁令(不加罚款)是公平的。

事后看来,即使我被罚款,也无法阻止PP上诉,因为这起案件已经被炒作得沸沸扬扬。

我几乎在最早日期——92日——联系了两位承包商,让他们查看SCC损坏情况,并根据他们批准的工况说明书和规格进行修复。

我一直向我的律师反映,我的承包商估算的费用为5000元,而SCC采用的是星级标准,他们的定期承包商却提高了费用(他们不是更换一块锌板,而是更换了整座小屋),并且3个护柱的价格也高达1.8万元。我已书面报价1.2万元,但SCC要求1.8万元。损坏的部位很小,而法官却选择强调损坏的痕迹。我也向我的律师解释过,我的车才2个月新车,隔音效果很好,我们通常不会停车检查轻微的道路移动/噪音,而法官却选择说我没有停车检查。

我也向我的律师解释过,我离开保安办公室的原因是为了去公司办公室那边/餐饮区找人帮我把车抬起来。事故现场的视频也显示了我如何回应保安。关键问题是,这个案件被媒体炒作了——因为它太独特了,除非我在为这辆车洗礼,否则不应该发生。事实上,早些时候,当我找律师时,他认为很难避免入狱——因为报道太耸人听闻了。我的律师已经向PP提交了两份书面陈述,要求以S 337疏忽罪名对其提出较低的指控,因为没有人受伤。他们的请求被驳回了。他甚至质疑法官,称RTA的某些法律不应该适用于我,因为我当时不在路上。我不确定我们是否质疑过事实陈述——结果是否会有所不同。 

法官甚至说,他很难想出如何根据不适合驾驶、开车回家的意图(8公里路程用了15分钟)、会撞到花园里的保安、如果上路会撞死人——对我处以罚款——这简直是对正义的嘲弄——以及基于这些假设而判刑,我违反了驾驶门槛并因此受到处罚。就连检察官的视频画面也太暗了,法官问PP是否有更好的视频,因为他什么都看不清楚。检察官也同意我开车很慢——50米用了8分钟(并没有超速或鲁莽驾驶——更像是迷路正在寻找出路的人)。

过去的违规行为已经是很久以前的事了,已经超过5年了。这也不准确——我从未因为超速被开过罚单——当时我闯红灯是在宏茂桥6号道往宏茂桥8号道(靠近杨厝港地铁站)的路上,因为车转弯太慢,我没能闯红灯。另一项违规是在堤道(Causeway)的双白线——开往新加坡海关往新山的路上,我挪到了下一个车道。

对我来说,我不能犯任何缓刑罪行——在2025520日的缓刑期前,我需要5年才能洗清罪名。我们可以在总检察长办公室(AGC)的网站上查看哪些是可登记的罪行。

当你寻找上帝时,你会用不同的方式寻找他——我在这里也变得非常有名,没有人对我评头论足——只是我的事故很独特,他们都一笑置之,觉得这怎么会发生。一定是个白痴或蠢货。有些人觉得这太过严厉,也有人觉得我应该质疑PP对事实的陈述,而且报纸报道在材料事实方面并不准确。我希望这起事故能帮助人们戒掉酒驾,就像我妻子一直说的——不要酒驾。

其他零星想法

一切都很容易——习惯就好——吃饭睡觉反复读圣经(ST LHZB)——背诵圣经经文,闲聊——周二和周四锻炼1小时。周三和周五看电影1小时。只是有一些限制。牢房很干净,我们每天洗45次澡。我很快就要出去了——所以57日中午12点之前——我建议我们先去妈妈家。

继续唱歌——我学到的一个教训是学习所有歌曲,然后不带歌词地唱,这样你就能记住它们——比如,当你被遗弃在岛上,漂浮在大海中时,可以不带歌词地唱——来提升自己。

标记程序——令人失望

我听说新的标记程序适用于刑期2个月的S短刑(就像苹果手表一样),以及刑期可能超过1年(标记在腿上)或更长的L长刑。

看来你必须至少再多待一个月或更长时间,才能适应最多一年的居家监禁,这样才能更好地适应外出生活。我的预审日(EDR)是57日(2025年)(4周),离狱日(LDR)是520日(2025年)(6周),这意味着我服刑了三分之二(公共假期可能不算)。

我以为我可以通过居家监禁提前释放第二个两周——这意味着我将于422日获释,在家服刑两周,期间会佩戴GPS手持设备进行标记,晚上10点前宵禁,你只能在中午12点到下午3点之间外出。起初,我听说如果离狱日超过1个月(我的是42天),也许可以。这取决于监狱总部——我是否可以继续佩戴设备或在57日之前获释。从监狱总部到获得提前释放计划(居家监禁)需要一个多月的时间。带GPS标签的居家隔离计划,宵禁到晚上10点——我可能得不到——必须超过一个月。所以我还没拿到。但我会继续祈祷——希望早日获释。

宗教仪式

即使是宗教仪式,他们也需要一个月的时间来处理,宗教仪式也是如此。

就我而言,我于2025415日提交了申请,但在接受高级警司Ravin Singh的面试时,我告诉他,202552日的宗教仪式对我来说非常重要。当我回到牢房时,我之前等待处理的申请被系统删除了。​​54日,当我在牢房里睡觉时,三一基督教中心的Philip Tay叫我去参加宗教仪式。

家庭探访

Rapha

新闻 419日,新加坡国立大学高中学生将获得更多研究和海外旅行机会。Solomon LimVincent Kwok被提及。

417日是Rapha演讲日,希望朋友们

不要问太多问题。 Rapha,每天以祷告开始,祈求上帝之手指引你,并祈求HS与你同行,成就你所有的决定。

祝贺R获得SSEF奖,也祝贺我未能出席的Speech Day颁奖典礼。听说R生病了,J也因为考试和即将到来的实习而压力很大——这是为了拓展朋友圈。

Raphael,谢谢你鼓励我。在信的人,凡事都能——主基督掌管着爸爸的生命。不要灰心。不要让敌人或同学用爸爸的事来打扰你,也不要让你分心,或让你对充满上帝的使命产生怀疑。上帝已经为你准备好了。保持忠诚,上帝总会带领我们进入未知的领域,坚固我们的信心——那是盼望之事的实底和未见之事的确据。所以,要坚强、忠诚。生活的荣耀不在于跌倒,而在于每次跌倒后都能重新站起来。

Jabez

Jabez 330 ST 自恋就像二手烟——读读这篇文章,自我认知,自我反省,因为以后我不在的时候,你要领导这个家。过高的自我重要感必须克制,要多一些同理心和理解,设身处地为他人着想。

来自Daphne姐姐

Daphne - 自由受到限制固然令人沮丧,但要把它当作训练耐心、保持冷静的契机;要看到所有事情积极的一面。要知道,你的妻子、儿子、父母、兄弟姐妹是你最坚强的后盾。我们会支持你!

公司事务

Jaslin HR计算出我的休假时间为17天(2025410日至56日),其中耶稣受难日、五一劳动节和选举日(我们不能在室内投票)的3天除外,剩余的休假天数为8.5天。

梵蒂冈 Vatican

我被告知教皇于2025421日(复活节星期一)去世,并于202557日获释。202557日,教皇们聚集在梵蒂冈选举新教皇,也就是我获释的那一天。罗伯特·弗朗西斯·普雷沃斯特枢机主教(美国)新教皇利奥十四世(Habemus Papam,即我们有了一位教皇)于202559日在秘密举行的第三次选举中当选,该选举由来自70个国家的133位枢机主教参加。

新加坡大选 Election

有人猜测选举结果为68%70%,我认为是63%

最终结果是65%,榜鹅集选区选情非常接近。

新闻文章

一切都将结束,重生将是一个全新的开始。

注:48日和412日的新加坡新闻(ST ST)已报道我的案例。

     STATEMENT OF FACTS

  1.  In the night when it happen, it was after a golf game and corporate dinner and I was still discussing with bankers at the table before I depart to go to the car- everything was like normal.

  2. My physical condition was weak when the accident happen, I tired and  dehydrated by the whole day of golf game – which was buggy off track for the first 9 holes-

  3. Following the incident , I immediately reach out to SCC to offer to do the recitifications works and brought 2 contractors for the site joint inspection. We could do it in 5 K however SCC rejected my offer to repair and insist on their term contractor at star rates at 18 K. I even write an email to counter offer at 12K ie between 5K and 12 K, but SCC ‘s basis is replace new  and whole. I have no choice but to accept.

  4. My lawyers has make several representations that it was a pure accident of someone losing the way in exiting the SCC  carpark through the opening in the car park that lead to the pathway towards the pool. My lawyer has pointed pout the facts and circumstances why I should not be charged under rash act.

  5. The mitigation plea further provide clear information and statement of facts which was largely ignore by the public prosecutor and was not addressed by the judge.

  6. The judge was too harsh in my case given the public opinionand jounalist coverage.  The judge  even mention that my car enter the pool 2 times which was incorrect. The first time it was at the edge of the swimming pool when I see the water, and  I did make a 3 point turn, and due to lapse of judgement, after the turn  I landed my car in the wading pool section. The judge stated that I was driving very slowly ie 8 mins for 50 m which is more believable of someone losing the way rather than acting in a rash manner. On the property damage, the  judge also assumed that I should come down and checked in the first instance. On this I have explained that the car was new and only 2 months old and sound proof. I did not visually knock into anything which would have cause me to stop and come out of the car to check. Sometimes driveway in golf club also cross buggy tracks, hence I accepted the rough terrain. When the PP play the video in the court, it was so dark that the judge ask if they have clearer video. The judge choose to listen to the security- that I wandered off when placed in the security room –the fact was that  I went to the main building to look for help to lift up the car. I myself also went into the water to help push it up.

  7. The media also sensationalise the case, eg instead of stating that I do not have any traffic violations in the last 7-8 years- they choose to highlight that I have many traffic violations. Even beating the red light was due to the car infront turning too slowing from Ang Mo Kio Ave 6 towards Ang Mo Ave 8 many years ago and not a rash act of speeding to beat the red light. 

  8. I am crushed under the weight of media attention and by the judgment—not just the sentence, but the twisted story and spectacle to feed the publicity, the judge assumed motives I never had, imagined dangers I never posed. I did not act with the recklessness they accuse me of.

  9. I also appeared before my company board who see it as an accident which can happen to anyone. We see even worse accidents on a daily basis rather a benign driving  so slowly in the darkness  with poor lighting, no signage, and no security barrier to prevent access to out of bounds area.

  10.  Of the course the drink driving it is up to state punishment based on Road Traffic Act.

  11.  In fact, the damages were minor eg curbs, grass verge, pool edges, 2 scrapped bollards and 1 zinc sheet of the shed, and a water hose across the pathway  that dislodge. and even the front of my car did not show visible impact except for some scratches on the right side of the car.

  12. I was a first time offender, and there was no injury to anybody, I myself was also not injured. It is a process of healing from the incarceration.

  13. I appeal to CEA not to penalise me for the moment of weakness as it was not deliberate, premediated, or intention to cause harm.